love and lust

LOL i'm in lust with a 20 something year old PR construction worker with tats that i think is as dumb as a box of rocks but he's hot and i'm in love with the mind and intellect of an 81 year old man,such a quandry, the 81 year old told me tonight when he gets rich again which he will he's retiring to the south of france and i said will you take me with you and he said without a beat yes,lol we've developed a really good friendship over the years,he has the best stories,he's living history and i just want to be around him all the time,oh he's a str8 guy don't get me wrong,lol is it possible to fall in love with a mind?